The R.H. on the back cover, following the author’s
name stands for, Relationship Humorist. This designation represents
what Kristina is – she is the first Relationship Humorist, and
deserves this title because she has uniquely applied humor to a
serious and sensitive subject.
This book is the culmination of 24 years of work and
study in the field of man-woman relations. For the past 18 years her
passion has been focused on the imponderable dynamic between men and
women. Out of that effort she discovered some simple but powerful
distinctions that would instantly alter anyone’s relationship. She
knew this was the work she was here to do, but needed to fully
experience all these distinctions for herself before she could share
them with the world.
Previous to this revelation, she was one of the
millions of women who was frustrated and confused about how to relate
with men. She had just ended another relationship with a great man and
once again thought it was his fault. It seemed odd to her that after
the many years of relating with men, she had never come across any
information so simple yet profound. It wasn’t until after years of
further study that she realized how bizarre it was that so many people
were unaware of how simple it was to win with the opposite sex.
For the next several years she talked with hundreds of
men and women about these insights and learned how to integrate these
precious pearls of wisdom into all her interactions.
Once she saw that these distinctions would
consistently and easily empower anyone relating to the opposite sex,
it became very clear to her that she was here to impart this
information to men and women who were open, willing and ready to
experience the kind of relationships we all dream about. When she saw
these simple ideas create miracles and transform many relationships
over and over, she was compelled to write this book.
This book is written descriptively and is not meant to
be prescriptive. Kristina is not a therapist or a psychologist. She is
a cheerleader for people to have more fun and connection in their
lives. She’s not telling you what she thinks you should do, but what
you can do. Whether it’s between spouses, dating partners, associates
at work, acquaintances or family, there are always opportunities for
fun or failure. Paying attention to the differences she is delineating
between men and women will enable you to avoid many of the failures,
and increase the opportunities for fun.
The first 26 chapters of the book will give you major
insights into the perfection of our differences. You can start at the
beginning and read straight through, or you can open the book anywhere
and pick a chapter. You will gain a deeper understanding of who YOU
are and how to play your side of the man-woman equation. The second
half came from a transcript of a Man-Woman course she taught in San
Francisco. It will drive home a lot of the ideas and distinctions that
were discussed in previous chapters.
